Does It REALLY Take Women Longer To Get Over The Breakup Of A Long-Term Relationship Than Men?

You hear that it usually takes the female longer to get over a breakup than men. Is that true?

Maybe not entirely

It takes a man A LOT more to wear his heart on the outside than a female may ever know. Once he does, he’s trusting you . . . probably more than he’s trusted anybody in his life. He knows that he’s completely vulnerable…

What you do with his heart could make or break him; he can be a great husband or an even greater “player”…

Because all men who’s been hurt before know that nice guys only finish last if he don’t leave first…

I know of many females who became the victim of a man who can no longer trust. No longer “love”. No longer be trusted.

Once a man’s been hurt by a breakup, the act of him trusting again (anytime soon) is highly unlikely…

So for the women who continue to think that it takes females longer to get over a relationship, just know that it may take men a lifestyle and a lifetime…

What do you guys think? Agree? Disagree? Anything I might have missed?

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    • Jhandi
    • March 23rd, 2010

    When it comes to matters of the heart, the nature of a man’s thought process is and remains a complete mystery to me. Most men that I know who have gone through a realtionship hardship do not reveal a wealth of information relative to the “length” of time that they endure emotional discomfort. We just process and internalize things so differently…

    • Miss_Cheekz
    • March 26th, 2010

    I think it actually do take women longer to get over a long term relationship because women were built to be very emotional (loving, caring etc…) majority of the time when a woman is serious about someone they cut out all the other hinderances & bs and focus on that 1 guy & then I guess the guy isn’t strong enough for the next step & he leaves the girl emotionally scorned!

    Then in some cases u have men that hurt more….Because I’ve learned that when a man is TRULY in love it can possibly last for a lifetime & he’ll try to protect & keep what’s his for as long as possible! Then in those cases when the woman leaves it seems as if she scarred his heart for life….I think that’s the reason we have “dogs, pimps, playas etc..” bc they’ve been hurt b4 & refuse to let it happen again!!

    • klaavir
    • April 8th, 2010

    WELL LIKE TYLER PERRY SAID MEN LOVE JUST AS HARD WE JUST LOVE DIFFERENTLY.WOMEN ARE THE REASON THAT THERE IS AN ABUNDANCE OF NO GOOD MEN ON THE EARTH.THEY FREQUENTLY CHOOSE THE WORST MEN TO BE WITH I.E BAD BOYS BECAUSE THEY THINK DECENT GUYS ARE BORING.THEY PICK THESE KNUCKLEHEAD DUDES TO BE WITH THINKING THEY CAN CHANGE THEM AND WHEN IT DAWNS ON THEM THEY CAN’T THEY FEEL BETRAYED.BUT THAT’S HOW IT IS AND UNFORTUNATELY IT WON’T CHANGE ANYTIME SOON.

    • ojjey
    • April 10th, 2010

    honestly it depends on the situation….i was wit this girl for lik 7mons and in the end it ended bad….at that point she was fallin out and i was just tired of dealin wit drama n sh*t…honestly it dint hurt too bad…..but aftr i realized and it cut deeper than a muthaf*cka….im a nice guy and it take a lng azz time for me to “open up” but it wasent tht hard inside…

    now on the oposite side,i met ths guy{[yea,,i go both wayz]} and honsetly i realy liked him and when we broke up,it was the first time i actualy cried for som1….
    jus feel like it depends on the level of emotion thts into it,,how yu broke up,,and how yu deal with yur emotions….

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